OK, I got it. There's a new feature that never happened before the latest update, as far as I can tell. Since Illustrator has always linked automatically, rather than imbed, it was never an issue, so it took some searching. When you first select "Place" you get this dialogue box, with the "Options" button. When you first open the Options dialog, all the boxes are subdued by default. This has never been the case before, so I never noticed it. Even if you select the option to "Relink" from the "Links" dialog box, if you don't open the option button and check "Link" your new attempt to link will result in imbedding. So, you have to select something. Then the "Link" option will activate. You have to check it every single time, because it is now always unchecked by default after each link. So, there you go. Back to work...
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